Mixed Heritage

The proportion of people with mixed heritage is steadily on the rise. They often exhibit physical aesthetic heterosis, i.e. they appear more beautiful than both ethnic groups that their parents originated. A male Eurasian often has a bigger bone frame, greater body & muscle mass, body hair & phallus size. I find some Chinese-Caucasian mixs extremely attractive, for they often retain some East Asian facial feature, yet inherit the Caucasian's genetic predisposition for muscularity & bigger, thicker penises.

Why do I Prefer Chinese & Koreans?

I find Korean beefcakes extremely impressive & attractive because they are the finest heavy weight bodybuilders in the whole of Asia. Chinese beefcakes & muscle bears are still a rarity but they are on the rise, esp in Taiwan. Like Caucasians & Indian Aryans, Koreans also have the genetic predisposition for height & beefiness, giving them a genetic advantage over the Chinese. But I still find Koreans ever so exotic. Perhaps it's because they are out of my reach? haha..

Why am I NOT into Japanese?

Simple. I am Chinese. They are Japanese. The details you can check it out in the history text books on Japanese occupation of East Asia & SEA during WWII, esp. the rape of Nanjing. Go check wikipedia for example. & worst is their refusal to acknowledge it & apologise for their atrocities. Raping & killing children, women, & the elderly are all wrong, whether it's during times of war or peace. An eye for an eye & a tooth for a tooth. Therefore, the lives of 100,000 Japanese men & women should be offered to East Asia & SEA as hostages & slaves if they are sincere in apologizing for what they had done. Saying "sorry" is not a cure! Therefore, until the Japanese acknowledge their transgressions & express their repentance with the offering of 100,000 souls, I will not have sex with them!

Can You Be My Boyfriend?

No. This is not a typical proposal by a gay man to another to enter into a typical monogamous gay relationship, but into a monogamous raw sex relationship. The way this proposal is phrased really degrades the meaning of love! Fortunately for the Greeks, they have 3 words for "love" - "eros" for sexual, erotic love (i.e. lust); "philia" for non-sexual liking & fondness (i.e. like); & "agape", which has elements of selflessness sacrifice. Therefore, instead of saying "can you be my boyfriend", why not say "can we be raw sex buddies?"

Suggested Serving, Suggested Imaginations

I detest fake pics as much as I detest fake statistics. As the late Benjamin Netanyahu puts it: "there are 3 types of lies - lies, bigger lies, & statistics!" What's the point of deducting 5 yrs from your age, deducting 5-10kg from your flabby body, & adding 5-10cm to their height? Seeing is believing & all your lies will b dispelled!

Meeting people who employ fake pictures is like being served with a pizza in Pizza Hut that does not appear to match with the tantalizing pics in the menu. Fortunately for mine, they are not suggested servings.

Those that employ fake pics are often fuglies who suffer from severe low-self esteem & inadequacies. Stick insect, nerdy computer geeks, balding obese uncles... you name it. They come in all shapes & sizes, except being athletic, muscular, cute or leanfit. They employ fake pics as illusions to deceive people with attributes that they desire to engage sex with them.

Well, these idiots are in for major disappointments. People may just slam the door right at the front of their faces, or give them a punch to their already kena-langgar faces, further disfiguring them. The more civilised & polite ones will decline politely & leave the meeting asap, never to meet them again! Nobody likes to be disappointed by fake pics. Do not do to others what you do not wish others to do to yourself. I wonder how a pair of fuglies who use fake pics react when they meet up. Should be very fun to watch!

To these people, I just wanna say that no matter how close you resemble the fake pics you used, you are different from the person in the pic, unless he's your identital twin brother. If a chimpanzee looks 50% like a Homo sapien, then having an 80% resemblance to the person in the pic makes me imagine u looking like a Homo erectus.

& no matter how wonderful your treatment to the person you date using your fake pic, be it a lavish meal in a high-class restaurant or serving him the finest Chinese tea & giving a good back massage, expect him to be VERY disappointed your rendezvous.

To the hunks & adonis out there, watch out. Do not give out your loin-warming pics so liberaly. I too love to have my face & body admired (but not by fuglies). Dun b surprised if u see "yourself" in the same chatroom!

Alternatively, they are just sick minded liars who enjoy playing mind games by enticing & misleading people with suggestive words to get them all high & horny & charged up for sex but only to leave them high & dry. They will request for you to mail or upload your pics to them. They will give all sorts of reasons for not being able to meet up with u, especially after securing your pics to deceive more people. They will continue postpone their meetings with you to observe how long u can be led on & be fooled by them. Oh well, every dog has its day & to these liars, may they all pay heavy prices for their lies.

My sentiments against fake pics are also extended to outdated pics. Like fake pics, it's very disappointing to meet up people who have changed (for the worse) since their pics were taken. It'll be a good surprise to me if the person I am meeting has beefed up further & his complexion improved, say from his acne-riddled face pic. However, more often than not, I'm disappointed when it meet up people who have long lost the will to gym & maintain their musculature & permit time & entrophy to cause their muscles to sag & be replaced by fatty tissue. I do not mind if their pics were taken 20 years ago but they look as good as their 20yo pics depict them & their muscles remained firm to the touch. Just as straight men detest sagged breasts, I detest sagged muscles. So, am I supposed to imagine how hard & firm ur muscles were 20 years back. The past is past. I'm talking about the present.

The worst are those whose profile are pictureless. They furnish their profiles with stats, lavish description of what they are & describe themselves with bogus adjectives, e.g. muscular, beefy, gymfit, stud, hunk, etc. So, am I supposed to imagine how big & muscular & handsome you are? Meeting up with these people often turn out to be a double-disappointment, just as how u would have delusions of how tasty & wholesome a dish in a pictureless menu would be, only to be disappointed of how different it appears like & it's so not worth the bill attached to it. Despicable!

How Do You Define Muscular?

These days, there are many mediocres who think too highly of themselves & use bogus nicks & descriptions of their physique to enhance their sex appeal in cyberspace. Beefcake, muscular, gymfit, stud, hunk... u name it! While it's true tt in the Internet, nobody knows tt u r a dog, don't u love the disappointment if the person u r meeting up turns u down because you r lesser than what you have described yourself to be? While it's true tt muscular is subjective & everybody's dictionary for it is different but I think it's being used too liberally these days.

I am very good gauging whether a guy deserves to be called muscular or not. I'm currently 170cm-73kg & I have chopstick calves, ie. there is more muscle mass on my upper body. Therefore, if some guy who is 178cm tall but weight only 68kg (but has thick calves) & describes himself as muscular, I'll dismiss his claim as bogus. He's just lean fit, full stop! Sometimes, I just love meeting up with people with such bogus claims. It feels good to dismiss them. "oh you think you are muscular ha?"

What "beefy" to me? A guy with a BMI of 27.5 with his % body fat below 10. Therefore, a 170cm tall guy like me should be weighing 80kg of muscles before I would describe myself as muscular.

Mediocres Begone!

Spots for spots & stripes for stripes. Mediocres for mediocres, elites for elites. Muscular for muscular. A mediocre suggesting sex with me is like a poor old peasant farmer proposing to a beautiful noble woman for her hand in marriage. Know your caste & know where you stand. Take a good look at yourself in the mirror before approaching me. If sex is free, why should I allow my body tt I've trained so hard in the gym to be touched by u!

If u want muscles, go hire a muscular escort. If u want muscles yourself, go hit the gym! Take steroids if u must. No wait! Start off with calisthenics! Push ups, sit ups, dips & pull ups. I hate the sight of mediocres lifting feather light weights in the gym & hogging up the machines.

More About Me

What you see is what you get. My pictures are not "suggested servings". A picture tells a thousand words. Seeing is believing. A webcame tells 10K words & meeting up the person in real, 100K.

Am a typical, honest, straight forward, expressive, meticulous, perfectionistic, narcissistic, eccentric, non-conformist Virgo with the polar extremes of a gemini.

I was a just another average joe in the past (only 170cm-55kg). But I held onto this inspirational motto, that "it's better to b admired that to b an admirer". Therefore, I'm proud of where I am today but am not gonna stop until I add on another 15kg of muscles!

Am here for sex! Be it ONS or fuck buddies. Am into fit guys - beefcakes, muscle bears. The beefier the better! If u wanna look for chatmates & friends, may i suggest MOX?

What turns me on?

ONE: beefy men. The beefier the better. Let the sky be the limit! If u r 178cm tall, you are considered beefy if you are 85kg with no more than 10% body fat. That's beefy. That's muscular. If you are only 68kg, you are leantoned / gymfit. You do not qualify to be called beefy. Save yourself some face instead of using a bogus adjective to boost your market value on the net.

TWO: physically matured (as in not looking like a kid) but young-looking (not old enough to be my father). The usual age range is between 25-35yo. However, some people age slower than the rest. So while your age may fall out of my desired age range, you may still fit the bill if your face, skin & body is well maintained.

No kids please. Dear children, if u wanna play, go look for the paedophilic & ephebophilic uncles, (esp those bald, filthy-rich, lonely bankers). They have lots of money tt u leech from, which u can use to hire muscular escorts to fulfil ur myofetishes.

While I can gauge how big & muscular you are judging from your stats, the late Benjamin Netanyahu once mentioned that "there are 3 types of lies: lies, bigger lies, & statistics!"

THREE: a cute or handsome or dashing face.

Now I'll talk abt what turns me OFF:

ONE: I hate people describing how big & handsome & muscular they are but their profiles that lack any pictures of their bodies. "big", "handsome", "muscular", "hunk", "stud" & etc are very subjective & relative terms. These are non-quantifiable (i.e. subjective) & everybody has a different dictionary for those terminologies. I hate being left to imagine how muscular & handsome you are as much as I hate reading & imagining the dishes in a pictureless menu. No "suggested imaginations" please.

TWO: I hate fake pics as much as I hate outdated pics. There is no point tantalizing pple with deceptions. You will be the one who is put to shame once the truth is revealled. The door will be slammed right in front of your face! I dun care how long ago the pic was taken so long as ur actual looks & muscle tone are as good as u in the pic. As much as straight men detest sagged breasts & cellulite, I destest sagged muscles!

Am open to chat with almost anybody but if you wanna take a good look at yourself in the mirror before you approach me for sex. If your profile lacks a body or face pic, & your face & body is just an average joe, expect a torrent of derogatory remarks regarding your body & your face if you ever dare suggest me to have sex with your mediocre body & fugly face! You have been warned!

THREE: rude, self-absorbed, snobbish muscle god who expects to have his cock served & his muscles worshipped.

Sex Addict In Need of Help!

I'm a sex addict. My life revolves around sex. All work & other activitites revolves around sex. Even I gym with the aim of improving my sex appeal to attract the attention of the most muscular men in my gym (to no avail of course). I'm certainly in need of help to overcome my addiction. I'm very bothered if I cant get my rations & I'm angered when I'm seduced, turned on, but abandoned & left high & dry. This is very disturbing. It's affecting my work performance, my gym performance. I certainly need help!

Sand & Diamonds

Why are diamonds so precious, expensive, dear, deeply desired, coveted, & sought for? Why are the grains of sand on the beach so overlooked & taken for granted? Simple. Sand is composed of quartz, a common mineral on Earth & therefore taken lightly of, whereas diamonds are extremely rare, found only in kimberlite & lamproite rocks.

Therefore in sex buddy relationship, one should not display too much interest in his sex partners, lest he be taken for granted like the sands on the beach. I've learnt this the hard & painful way. Yes, sex with some of them was extremely good. I wanted more. I wanted to satisfy them too. Give them a good time. However, I was taken for granted by them & they see me no more. Therefore, one should only display marginal interest during conversations over IM, emails, sms or the phone. There should not be any small talks other than sex. You are meeting him up solely for a sexual transaction. Once it's completed, you two should be on own on separate ways. Do not display profound interest in the person. For those that you met for the 1st time in the saunas, just leave your number behind if they fancy you for a second round. Wait for their call. Do not call them.

When you draw them into your place for sex, stimulate all their senses: sight, sound, smell, taste, & touch. Make your moment with them a memorable one, such that they will seek you again & again for more sensations. In so, you create an exclusitivity in yourself that they cannot find in other men, putting them firmly under your spell. Practise this on several men you meet & soon you shall have a near daily supply of flesh for your physical gratification.

The Hare & the Tortoise in the World of Bodybuilding

As mentioned in my previous blog, there is a rare number of those blessed with a good basic body frame to become muscle gods (e.g. 178cm-80kg barrel-chested, mesomorphic or semi-ectomorphic body with big calves & broad shoulders). While there are those who went on to realise their full potential, there are the unfortunate those who became couch & computer potatoes, binge on alcohol & calorie-dense foods - finally ending up with disgusting man boobs & huge jelly pot bellies that quiver as they walk about - reminding me of the Blob in the X-men series or Baron Harkonnen of Frank Herbert's Dune universe. These are likened to the complacent hare that lost the race from sleeping.

Some gays become gays because they suffer from an inferior complex, thinking that they are not man enough because they lack certain physical attributes of a macho man, e.g. a beefy musculature, height, thick calves & wide chest. Thus, they desire the company & (perhaps) physical union with men with qualities & attributes that they lack to make up for what they lack. While some of these continue not to improve on their physique, some are driven to improve on their physique, inspired by the motto "it is better to be admired than to be an admirer". They toil in the gym, eat more, take protein supplements, & mass gainers. Some even risk their health by injecting or consuming steroids. The end result, some of these ended up more attractive than the big, tall straight guys that they had crushes on during their high school days. Thus, some of these tortoises beat the hares in the race to become muscular & sexually attractive.

I was a thin, frail boy with the a 170cm tall body & 55kg body during my high school days. I was a whimp. I cant play football nor basketball nor tennis. I can only play basic badminton & swim breaststroke & freestyle (but my swimming instructor commented that I swam very stiffly, like a wooden plank!). Yup. Had crushes on many guys who are taller, bigger, & more muscular than me. However, since my uni days, I've taken up weight lifting as a hobby. I've joined the uni's dragon boat team for a while. That was where I learnt the basics for fitness & weight lifting. & all I need to do to improve then was to gradually increase the weights that I lift.

Today, I weight 73kg, which I felt it's a good personal achievement. When I went to a local sauna recently, I could not find someone that meets my match or more muscular than me. Yes, most of the beefier ones are in hiding or bound in monogamy. I'm not contended with where I am now. My aim is to achieve a 85kg beefy body. & when I meet up with my former school mates in one of their weddings recently, they were astonished with how much I have grown after my O levels. My thin calves are the evidence of how thin i was during my secondary school days. If I can make it this far, I believe many others have done so (even exceeded me) & many of you can be as muscular as me or even better.

To carve a Big Statue, You'll Need a Big Rock

To be an aesthetically appealing heavy weight bodybuilder, your basic, foundational, naive body frame should be at least 178cm tall, barrel-chested, mesomorphic body weighing 80kg, with long clavicles for broad shoulders, & big calves. Ideally it should be 185cm tall & 85kg.

Why? If you are too short, say only 168cm tall, you'll look short & staut like a little teapot. If you are 180cm-65kg, you are pretty endomorphic & it may be a challenge to add on lean weight. If you are an ectomorph, it'll b a challenge to add on lean mass without increasing your fat mass. Ectomorphs have to invest a lot of more effort in their cutting phase, making it slower for them to achieve a body of Herculean proportions. I think these ectomorphs should consider adopting a muscular stocky body like those muscle bears.

To attain a sexually appealing V frame for the upper body, one must be endowned with longer clavicles (collar bones) for a broader shoulder. While it's a great challenge to enlarge one's delts, chest & shoulders if you have a wide shoulder frame but to those who succeeded, they are such a turn on! The barrel-chested rugby players may not be endowned with an obvious V frame, but they have very big, wide & strong chests & shoulders, another major turn on!

The calve muscles may be the hardest muscle on the body to train up. Therefore, those who are endowned with large calves have a far greater edge over those who do not in attaining an X framed body, which is far more sexually appealing than those with a clear V frame but chopstick legs, which may be a put off for some (but not for me, because I prize the upper body musculature above the rest).

So to carve a big statue, the basic body should be big in the 1st place. While lacking tt kind of frame is not a disability but presents a major obstacle against achieving a Herculean body. I certainly envy guys who are endowned the basics, & my admiration goes to those who made full use of this advantage in them to realise their full potential to become muscle gods. Those who are complacent with their gifts & made no effort to improve on them but slacked & accumulate fat seriously irks me. If I have a foundation like theirs in the 1st place, I may have attained a bodybuilder's physique by now.

The Reason Why am I NOT into Caucasians

The logic for my decision?

Premise ONE: Caucasians have the genetic predisposition for a bigger, more muscular physique.

Most Caucasians are descended from barbarians (e.g. Vikings, Magyars, Goths, Slavs, Celts), Turks, Greeks & Romans, all of whom are physically endowned to be conquerers & terrorizers. Europe has been pretty chaotic in the recent 1500 years, with threats of barbarians (e.g. Vikings, Magyars & Huns) & the Ottoman Empire. These invaders may not only pillage the areas that they terrorise, but also systematically decimate the local male populations & rape the women there, leaving their genetic inprints in the local genetic pool. Also, male commoners were conscripted into millitary service during the Crusades & war campaigns. Only the fitter ones survive the ardous journeys to warzones, survive the conflicts there, & survive the treck home to enter into marriage & reproduce. Chaos from such turmoils exerts a strong selection pressure for physical fitness. Therefore, a significantly large proportions of native European males today would have been endowned with the genetic predisposition for greater physical heights & muscularity.

In East Asia, there is politically far more stable than Europe during the last 2000 years with the unification of the entire Han China under the Qin Dynasty. Thus, there is far less selection pressure for fitter & physically endowned males. In these Confucian societies, males are regarded to be of greater importance than females, for they are heirs to the family name. One of the greatest sins to their ancestors then was not being able to sire a son for the continuation of the family name. Thus, there are efforts to ensure that they enter into marriage & reproduce to carry on the family name, eventhough they possess undesirable characteristics, e.g. a thin, sickly physique, small penises. Thus, Chinese & Korean males who are endowned with height, strength & huge shafts are genetic rarity & should therefore be considered exotic.

Swim-fit, gym toned physique of a Japanese boy is very popular in Singapore & widely adopted by many metrosexual AJ. However, they are likened to the sand on a beach, so common, nothing impressive, unlike a rare 185cm-95kg Chinese Hercules.

Premise TWO: Good gym facilities are more abundant & accessible in developed Western countries.

Unlike countries like Malaysia, whereby good gym facilities are rare & the gym membership fees are very heavy, good gyms abound in the developed West & are far more affordable. Thus, the Caucasians there have less excuse for not lifting weights & build muscles. Too busy? The only group of people who are too busy to gym are those Singaporean bankers who may work over 10 hours a day, 5-6 days a week!

Premise THREE: Food, bodybuilding supplements, & anabolic steroids are more available at a more affordable prices in developed Western countries (with respect to their citizen's purchasing power).

Optimum Nutrition's 100% Whey Protein (5lbs) is only USD39.99 from bodybuilding.com but SGD122.00 in retail & SGD72.00 from nutritionpark.com - a Singaporean online supplement store. That's HELL a lot more cheaper in the States! Consumers in the States will have greater purchasing power over the same product in USA than a Singaporean in Singapore. In addition, some USA bodybuilders obtain their protein source solely from whey powder instead of meat or eggs because it's a cheaper alternative source of protein & it's preparation into protein shakes is far more convenient than boiling eggs & separating out the yolk from the egg white (fyi, cooked ovalbumin is more digestible vs raw ovalbumin). It's quite a chore to consume 10-15 egg whites a day, not to mention the hydrogen sulphide egg breath after that.

Furthermore, there are "legal steroids" available in developed countries like USA, i.e. they can be purchased from the local pharmacies with a prescription (Rx) to enhance musculature for aesthetic purposes. However the user will not be permitted to participate in competitions. Fair enough. There may even be companion selling of other drugs & supplements to be administered concomitantly with steroids to taken also accompany the purchase of these steroids with other drugs & herbal supplements to help minimise the undesirable side effects associated with chronic steroid use, e.g. milk thistle & schisandra (wu wei zi) as hepato-protectants & to promote liver regeneration.

Premise FOUR: Work environment & standard of living in developed Western countries are better & more relaxed that in developing countries, e.g. Japan, Hong Kong, Taiwan, South Korea, Singapore, & Malaysia.

Stress increases cortisol secretion, a catabolic stress hormone that promotes centripetal fat distribution (fatty torso & thin arms) & muscle catabolism. Thus, when you are under stress, it's harder to maintain your musculature, let alone promote muscle growth. The work environment in countries dominated by East Asians (e.g. Japan, Hong Kong, Taiwan) is far more stressful than Caucasian dominated countries, which explains their higher suicides & insanity rates. It's all thanks to the stupid Confucian idea that success stems from hard work. Partially true, but success stems from working smartly & efficiently. Efficiency is intelligent laziness. Therefore, it will be easier for a Caucasian in the USA to grow muscles than a Chinese in Hong Kong.

THUS, given the genetic predisposition present, the abundance of good food, cheap & good supplements, good & relatively cheap gym facilities available, less stressful work environment, most Caucasians should be a Herculean Adonis! However, we see that most of them failed miserably to take advantage of their genetic predisposition & living environment to attain a body of Herculean proportions. Instead, they are more interested in eating fat-laden foods & binging on alcohol to cultivate love handles (I call them lard handles), man boobs & gross pot bellies as if they are 9 months pregnant! Imagine all the body hair, long beards, moustaches, obese bodies with sagging boobs & a big pot belly (not to mention their sourish smell)... it's a TOTAL PUT OFF!

If I were to be raised up in USA / Canada / Australia, given the abundant good food, cheap & good protein supplements, & good gym facilities available, I would have been a walking 185cm-95kg muscle god by my early 20's.

Furthermore, most of the gorgeous Caucasian hunks that you watch on TV are the TOP most beautiful Caucasians in the Caucasian populations. If they are not the best, how can they appear on TV? Even those who appear on reality shows have already screen for acceptable standards of beauty. The rest of the population are as mediocre & bland as any average asian tom dick & harry that u can encounter along the streets of Singapore or KL.

Why are there so many hairy & obese Caucasian uncles in Singapore? ONE: they are single, TWO: they have established & successful careers, i.e. got too much money & dunno how to make good use of it. Why are Singaporean Chinese boys so crazy over these Neanderthals? ONE: they have a fetish over big & thick (but limp) cocks. TWO: they want to use these uncles as a launchpad to gain residence in a developed western country, just like those sarong party girls. Disgusting gigolo sluts!