Poppers are Pro-Oxidants - They Antagonise Your Antioxidants & Omega 3

Poppers elicit their high by releasing nitric oxide (NO) when metabolised by the enzymes present in the plasma. NO is a free radical that stimulates vasodilation, increasing the oxygen supply to the brain. Oxygen is a source of free radicals & the unsaturated C=C double bonds are 1 of the their targets. Therefore, free radicals destroy the omega-3 essential fatty acids like DHA that you take to improve lipid profile & more importantly, retard neuron degeneration as 1/3 of the brain lipids is DHA. However, these free radicals can be quenced by antioxidants. Therefore, someone taking a lot of antioxidant supplements may not experience a high as great as someone who is taking little of such supplements & is on a poor diet with little fruits & vegetables. On the bright side, the antioxidants protect neurons from free radical attack & degeneration. Therefore, there is less brain damage for one whose diet is rich in antioxidants & is on antioxidant supplements. However, if you wish to retard aging & brain degeneration by supplementing with omega-3 & antioxidants, why use poppers?

Health Implications of Excessive Sex & or Masturbation

In Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM), blood is the mother of Qi, & Qi is the commander of blood. One drop of semen = 10 drops of blood. Therefore, excessive masturbation may deplete one's Qi, or life force. From my personal experiences, masturbation is deemed excessive when it is habitually performed more than once a day over several days. When I overdid it, I look & feel lethargic & anaemic. I also complain of poor stamina & mental concentration, appear dazed & confused. Furthermore, I do feel faint during major workouts, esp those that involve various muscle groups from head to toe as much more blood is chanelled to the skeletal muscles, reducing the overall blood pressure. Usually, the heart is able to handle the blood pressure reduction due to vasodilation in the muscles. However, when one is anaemic, the blood pressure is already low. Thus, heart may not be able to tolerate a further reduction in blood pressure. Chronic excessive masturbation may also result in reduction in immunity as the body's resources are depleted, e.g. amino acids to synthesize antibodies against pathogens. Thus, I often experience colds & fall ill more often when i overdid it. If the deficiency is mild, e.g. cold, consuming 2 half-boiled eggs do help to replace some of my Qi to fight against the virus.

Aristotle viewed semen as "refined from food" & it parallels with the notion that a teaspoon of semen = 40 tablespoon on rice. Aristotle hypothesize that masturbation at an early age depletes the body of nourishment to drive verticle growth. Thus, masturbation should be discouraged in young boys until their vertical growth is completed, i.e. ard 18yo.

Receipe for Herbal Viagra

It should at least contain these herbs: Panax ginseng, Cordycep sinensis, Rhodiola rosea, Eurycoma longifolia, Lepidium meyenii, Tribulus terrestris, & Ginkgo biloba. The 1st 5 herbs improve vitality & hence virility. Tribulus terrestris is said to increase gonadotrophin-releasing hormone (GnRH), which increases the level of LH & FSH, which increases the testosterone output from the testicles. Ginkgo biloba improves blood circulation & possess antioxidant compounds, & thus contribute in the preservation of the penile microvasculature.

Additional ingredients derived from insects may be included to further enhance its potency. The new queen leafcutter ant (Atta levigata) & the Thai termite queen are purported to possess potent aphrodisiac properties. Perhaps it is due to certain hormones (e.g. ecdysteroids) that is present in higher concentrations in these queens that is lower or absent in the workers. Certain plants are known to synthesize ecdysteroids (termed phytoecdysteroids e.g. ecdysterone) as defence mechanisms against insect pests by disrupting ecdysis (moulting). Examples are in are Cordycep sinensis, Pfaffia paniculata (Brazillian ginseng), Rhaponticum cartamoides, & Ajuga turkestanica (turkesterone). Thus, pure turkesterone & ecdysterone may be added into this herbal Viagra pill.

Natural supplements in the market are often riddled with fraud & adulteration. I wish there are honest people who can obtain quality raw ingredients from reputable sources for the making of this wonder sex capsule.

Melaleuca Essential Oil for Anogenital Wart Treatment

Melaleuca oil has antibacterial, antifungal, & antiviral properties (e.g. treatment of cold sore aka herpes simplex virus I). It may be applied daily to manage anogenital warts due to human papillomavirus (HPV) infection. Although there is no thorough clinical trials on its safety & efficacy profile, its success has been reported in anecdotes. However, one must bear in mind that there are over 100 different strains of HPV. I believe it can be combined with cryotherapy & the best time to apply tea tree oil is right after cryo. Until now, it is uncertain which of the compound in melaleuca oil that is responsible for its antiviral effects. Consistent daily applications are required. The oil should not be diluted beyond 50% with water. The common adverse effect of topical application of melaleuca oil to penile region is temporal parasthesia. Should it be applied to the anal regions for the treatment of anal warts, it may irritate the rectal wall, stimulating the urge for defecation. Thus, one should apply it after cleaning his anus via douching or enema.

HIV+ Individuals Should NOT Engage in Raw Sex with Each Other

Even if they are HIV+, they should not engage in unprotected sex with each other. The HIV virus mutates very rapidly & there is constant ongoing natural selection for strains resistant against anti-retroviral drugs. Thus, should a multidrug-resistant HIV strain developed in 1 individual, it can be transmitted to rapidly among HIV+ individuals who engage in raw orgies. Thus, in a short period of time, these individuals may run out of suitable anti-retrovirals to inhibit the virus. The greatest concern is on individuals who are just diagnosed with HIV infection & the strain they are carrying is already resistant to several anti-retrovirals.

Besides, HIV+ patients are more vulnerable to other STDs due to their weakened immunity compared to HIV- individuals. Certain strains of human papillomavirus (HPV) have been associated with anogenital & cervical carcinomas & this risk is high in individuals carrying both HPV & HIV viruses. Multiple STDs & other infections may further strain the weakened immune system, accelerating its exhaustion & final collapse. Therefore, HIV support groups should also advocate protected sex even among HIV+ individuals.

Taken for Granted

No matter how good looking you are, no matter how good you & him felt at that moment, unless you are his boyfriend, you will be taken for granted. You will be regarded as another piece of meat for the fulfilment of physical gratifications. Once the pleasurable transaction is completed, you are on your separate paths.

That was what happened to me last Saturday night. The night before, I was invited to a 3some with a couple. Both were my bottoms. I had a fun time pounding those 2 asses & I felt fun being shared & transferred between the 2 of them that night. We 3 all wanted more the next night so I came over again the next time. This time, one of them came back with a sour, sulky mood, upset over something personal. It is not my job to find out & console him. I'm just a fuck buddy. That's all. Nothing more. Nothing less.

As I was tired from my lack of sleep the previous night. I had a long day at work on saturday. Hope you can be a little understanding how hard it is to be a top. As for you, all you have to do is lie down while i do most of the work. I just need a little rest. By the time I got it up, you dun want it anymore. & I did ask you occasionally over the next 6 hours but you were still disintersted in me. I felt so rejected. I'm just another penis, easily replaced by another. I wish you fun. Good luck...

Vaseline for Sore Ass

After a rough fuck, or a series of rough fucks, if your anus is sore, apply a generous amount of vaseline (petroleum jelly) to the outside of the anus & the immediate inside. It forms a temporal protective barrier over the abraded skin, reducing the risk of infections that may retard healing, so that your ass can make a quicker recovery for your next fuck.

Singapore Police Target Gay Party Drug Users

Instead of actively roaming the neighbourhoods to round up people who abuse hardcore drugs (e.g. morphine, cocaine, marijuana & hallucinogens), the police in Singapore would rather sit in front of the desktop, enter into gay chatrooms to search for & entrap gays who use social drugs (e.g. ecstacy, ice & ketamine).

Take Adrian Yeo See Seng's case for example. His brilliant prospects of becoming a doctor is ruined forever by the insensible act by the police & the Singapore Medical Council to expose him to the media. If it wasn't for the police & the SMC, how could the press come to know about this case? Party drug users are often rounded up by the police time after time. So what's so special about his case that it needs to be highlighted & sensationalized by the media? Was it because he is gay? Was it because he is a medical student?

Must you pour acid over somebody's wound? It's already bad enough that he'll be jailed for 6 months & be blacklisted in the SMC. Must you also alert the press & tarnish his & his family's reputation as well? I guess it certainly feels very good to ruin somebody's future. You policemen are just jealous that you dont have the brains to study medicine or any professional degrees & could only be a lowly law enforcer. What are the names fo the 2 undercover policemen? Why weren't their names exposed by the press?

Instead of busting thieves, syndicates, drug traffickers, & potential terrorists, the police decided to devote their resources to destroy the future of this little fry, who was just a periodical abuser of ice. But the police in Singapore are anti-gay & fault-finders. They just want to find fault in gays & mess up their lives. Just admit it. Confession is good for the soul. That you hate gays, u r a bigot, u r ignorant, u wanna find fault in gays & u wanna persecute them.

Remember the guy who was a teacher in a school for special children? He was caught having public oral sex at a secluded corner at a HDB staircase with another men. It was a consented act between 2 adults. & the police equate him with a paedophile & felt obligatory to report this incident to the school headmaster, who went on to report to the parents who brought their children there. The consequence? The parents demanded whatever that was touched by him, be it the toys, stools tt he sat on, the toilet doors, all be changed or they will refuse to send their children there. Did the police conduct an enquiry as to whether he had sexually abused any of the children there & children who schooled there in the past? To the ultra-bigot police & the bigot parents, gay = paedophile = HIV+ & HIV can spread via touch, sharing toys (not sex toys) & toilet.

There were also a case years ago in the late 1990's, whereby 2 undercover policemen in saunas peeped over the walls & caught 2 gay men engaging in consented private sex. This further highlighted their homophobic bigotry. People were just having private & consented sex inside a locked sauna cubicle & you peeped over to persecute them. Does the end justify the means? Don't you have any other thing better to do? There are genuine drug abusers, drug traffickers, pimps, illegal prostitutes & syndicates running around in Singapore. Furthermore, Singapore is a secular state, not a theocratic one. The only reason why homosexuality & anal sex is wrong is because your God in you Bible or your Quran said so. Isn't there a separation between the state & the religious institutions in Singapore?

Which of the two pose a greater threat to the society? Gays who only use party drugs during sex are still very much capable of holding decent jobs, even high positions, as opposed to hardcore drug addicts who are incapacitated by their drug-induced euphorias & are not able to hold proper decent jobs to contribute to the society & the economy. & to meet their daily rations of drugs, they rob, steal, prostitute their wives, & even traffic drugs themselves.

You know, when u destroyed the life of Adrian Yeo, it revealled how short-sighted you are. You are like the Pharisees - whitewashed tombs, who washes the outside of the cup but not the dirty inside. Hardcore addicts still roam around Singapore, harrassing retail pharmacists into selling codeine syrups to them. Pretty often, they even walk off without paying. It's time you clean up your binoculars.

Separate Homosexuality from the Church

Just as seculars advocate the separation of the state & the church, so must the issue of homosexuality be separated from the Church, for these two abideth not, like oil & water, like light & darkenss. I dislike hearing pro-gay preachers quoting the Christian Scripture as much as I dislike hearing anti-gay preachers denounce homosexuality & condemn homosexuals to Hell. Do not twist the facts: the Bible denounces homosexual contacts & relationships, as mentioned in Levititus: "Let no man lay with another man as a woman does with a man, for God hates it. For those who were caught in the act, they are to be put to death via stonning." I hate reading how pro-gay preachers interpret the history of Lot in Sodom & Gomorrah or the Epistles of Paul. All homosexuals who claimed to profess the Christian faith must know this - that they are in rebellion & direct opposition with the Almighty. But heck care. So what?? If God cant be bothered with so many outstanding social injustices (e.g. gang rape, child prostitution, drug trafficking & mafia), why would He should be bothered with us homosexuals?

Section 377 is STUPID!

Anal & oral sex between consenting heterosexual adults is permissible by law but not between consenting homosexual adults. That's stupid. A man demeans the existence of a woman by f**king her ass rather than f**king her pussy. Imagine a husband saying this to his wife: "can I f*** your ass tonight?" The wife would be thinking "wtf?! I got a pussy for u to scr** but yet you want to f*** my ass?!" If the homophobes argument in this issue is tt anal sex is against what is intended by God because He made Adam & Eve, man & woman, & His intention for them to be together is to be "fruitful & multiply" & populate the Earth & the anus was designed by Him for defecation.

To quote the anti-gay Dr Thio Li-Ann herself: "Anal-penetrative sex is inherently damaging to the body and a misuse of organs, like shoving a straw up your nose to drink. The anus is designed to expel waste". Yet, heterosexual anal sex between consenting adults is decriminalised. Hypocrites!

Homophobes are contradicting themselves when anal sex between heterosexual adults is decriminalised. Why the biasness? Isn't heterosexual anal sex also carnage act against the order of nature? Did God also designed a woman's ass for sex in addition of defecation? Is heterosexual anal sex a natural act? Animals may perform autofellation (as seen in male dogs) & homosexual acts (as seen in freemartins) but they are wise enough not to perform anal sex among themselves (because feces has a plethora of microorganisms, some may cause urinary tract infection [UTI] in the penetrating male). While the rist of UTI in the penetrating male is reduced by cleaning the bowel by douching with enema prior sex, the point is: anal sex is an unnatural act that is not sanctioned by God, whether it's homosexual nor heterosexual.

Dr Thio was also quoted as saying this: "when something is forcibly inserted into it (the anus), the (anal sphincter) muscles contract and cause tearing". That usually happens during forced anal penetration during anal rape. Due to the involuntary nature of the inner anal sphincter, penetration has to be done gently & with care, so as not to tear the anal muscles there, which may result in loss of muscle tone & fecal incontinence. Nevertheless, fecal incontinence may occur to gay bottoms who are penetrated very regularly for very long time, & especially by very thick penises.

Anal cancer is often caused by the Human Papillomavirus (HPV), the same virus that causes cervical & more rarely oral & penile carcinomas is a threat to both homosexuals & heterosexuals alike, especially those who have multiple raw partners.

The same goes for oral sex. The mouth is designed by God as part of the digestive tract & as an orifice for the entry & mastication of food, not to be a receptable for the male penis. Therefore, oral sex is also unnatural & against the order of nature & God's divine intention. Furthermore, heterosexual oral sex may contribute to reduced fertility because the female who ingested semen may develop antibodies against the man's spermatozytes. This is because of the presence of M cells in the human small intestine, which samples antigens in the gut lumen & present these antigens to other immune cells, which result in the development of antibodies against these antigens. Therefore, oral sex among heterosexual couples should be banned because it reduces fertility. As for homosexual couples, because their sexual unions do not result in procreation, oral sex should not be banned on consenting homosexual adults.

Besides these, Section 377 does not criminalise wife rape. Rape can be defined as unconsented entry of a man's penis into a woman's vagina, whether that ultimately results in male ejaculation or not into the vagina. If the husband argues that the woman's body is no longer hers but his, the same should apply to the husband, that his body is no longer his but hers for her sexual pleasure. Therefore, it is a husband's duty to fulfil his wife's sexual demands, no matter how voracious her sexual appetite is. Furthermore, he must be able to keep his penis hard & firm at the 4th level of erection (1st level: tofu, 2nd fully ripe banana, 3rd: unripe banana, 4th zucinni) from the start & end of the sex session & she is to be able to attain orgasm in each episode of sexual penetration by her husband. Furthermore, he is to f*** her till she is satisfied & that is not a 5 minute f***. Impossible right? How many females ever achieved orgasm from sex with their male partner? How frequent? How many males are able to hold their erection at the 4th level to keep their sex partner satisfied?

What about males who claimed to be straight but enjoy inserting objects up their asses? Sometimes, the object got lost in the rectum beyond the sigmoid colon, which necessitates immediate medical attention. The doctors in the hospitals' A&E can testify that they encounter this pretty often. Are these ass-players suffering from a mental illness? Aren't these acts against the order of nature, since the direction of movement of things in the anus is OUT, not in. Neither is it "in & out"! Shouldn't these males be prosecuted?

What about adultery & fornification (pre-marital sex)? Should these offenders not be punished? In countries like Taiwan, they have outlawed adultery but permited homosexual anal sex between consenting adults. Is it not time that Singaporeans be more opened minded? If they can be open minded about anal & oral sex between consenting heterosexual adults, if they can overlook adultery & fornification & gross overexpression of love & sexual freedom in public by heterosexual couples, surely they can overlook homosexual sex between consenting gay adult men.

Mixed Heritage

The proportion of people with mixed heritage is steadily on the rise. They often exhibit physical aesthetic heterosis, i.e. they appear more beautiful than both ethnic groups that their parents originated. A male Eurasian often has a bigger bone frame, greater body & muscle mass, body hair & phallus size. I find some Chinese-Caucasian mixs extremely attractive, for they often retain some East Asian facial feature, yet inherit the Caucasian's genetic predisposition for muscularity & bigger, thicker penises.

Why do I Prefer Chinese & Koreans?

I find Korean beefcakes extremely impressive & attractive because they are the finest heavy weight bodybuilders in the whole of Asia. Chinese beefcakes & muscle bears are still a rarity but they are on the rise, esp in Taiwan. Like Caucasians & Indian Aryans, Koreans also have the genetic predisposition for height & beefiness, giving them a genetic advantage over the Chinese. But I still find Koreans ever so exotic. Perhaps it's because they are out of my reach? haha..

Why am I NOT into Japanese?

Simple. I am Chinese. They are Japanese. The details you can check it out in the history text books on Japanese occupation of East Asia & SEA during WWII, esp. the rape of Nanjing. Go check wikipedia for example. & worst is their refusal to acknowledge it & apologise for their atrocities. Raping & killing children, women, & the elderly are all wrong, whether it's during times of war or peace. An eye for an eye & a tooth for a tooth. Therefore, the lives of 100,000 Japanese men & women should be offered to East Asia & SEA as hostages & slaves if they are sincere in apologizing for what they had done. Saying "sorry" is not a cure! Therefore, until the Japanese acknowledge their transgressions & express their repentance with the offering of 100,000 souls, I will not have sex with them!

Can You Be My Boyfriend?

No. This is not a typical proposal by a gay man to another to enter into a typical monogamous gay relationship, but into a monogamous raw sex relationship. The way this proposal is phrased really degrades the meaning of love! Fortunately for the Greeks, they have 3 words for "love" - "eros" for sexual, erotic love (i.e. lust); "philia" for non-sexual liking & fondness (i.e. like); & "agape", which has elements of selflessness sacrifice. Therefore, instead of saying "can you be my boyfriend", why not say "can we be raw sex buddies?"

Suggested Serving, Suggested Imaginations

I detest fake pics as much as I detest fake statistics. As the late Benjamin Netanyahu puts it: "there are 3 types of lies - lies, bigger lies, & statistics!" What's the point of deducting 5 yrs from your age, deducting 5-10kg from your flabby body, & adding 5-10cm to their height? Seeing is believing & all your lies will b dispelled!

Meeting people who employ fake pictures is like being served with a pizza in Pizza Hut that does not appear to match with the tantalizing pics in the menu. Fortunately for mine, they are not suggested servings.

Those that employ fake pics are often fuglies who suffer from severe low-self esteem & inadequacies. Stick insect, nerdy computer geeks, balding obese uncles... you name it. They come in all shapes & sizes, except being athletic, muscular, cute or leanfit. They employ fake pics as illusions to deceive people with attributes that they desire to engage sex with them.

Well, these idiots are in for major disappointments. People may just slam the door right at the front of their faces, or give them a punch to their already kena-langgar faces, further disfiguring them. The more civilised & polite ones will decline politely & leave the meeting asap, never to meet them again! Nobody likes to be disappointed by fake pics. Do not do to others what you do not wish others to do to yourself. I wonder how a pair of fuglies who use fake pics react when they meet up. Should be very fun to watch!

To these people, I just wanna say that no matter how close you resemble the fake pics you used, you are different from the person in the pic, unless he's your identital twin brother. If a chimpanzee looks 50% like a Homo sapien, then having an 80% resemblance to the person in the pic makes me imagine u looking like a Homo erectus.

& no matter how wonderful your treatment to the person you date using your fake pic, be it a lavish meal in a high-class restaurant or serving him the finest Chinese tea & giving a good back massage, expect him to be VERY disappointed your rendezvous.

To the hunks & adonis out there, watch out. Do not give out your loin-warming pics so liberaly. I too love to have my face & body admired (but not by fuglies). Dun b surprised if u see "yourself" in the same chatroom!

Alternatively, they are just sick minded liars who enjoy playing mind games by enticing & misleading people with suggestive words to get them all high & horny & charged up for sex but only to leave them high & dry. They will request for you to mail or upload your pics to them. They will give all sorts of reasons for not being able to meet up with u, especially after securing your pics to deceive more people. They will continue postpone their meetings with you to observe how long u can be led on & be fooled by them. Oh well, every dog has its day & to these liars, may they all pay heavy prices for their lies.

My sentiments against fake pics are also extended to outdated pics. Like fake pics, it's very disappointing to meet up people who have changed (for the worse) since their pics were taken. It'll be a good surprise to me if the person I am meeting has beefed up further & his complexion improved, say from his acne-riddled face pic. However, more often than not, I'm disappointed when it meet up people who have long lost the will to gym & maintain their musculature & permit time & entrophy to cause their muscles to sag & be replaced by fatty tissue. I do not mind if their pics were taken 20 years ago but they look as good as their 20yo pics depict them & their muscles remained firm to the touch. Just as straight men detest sagged breasts, I detest sagged muscles. So, am I supposed to imagine how hard & firm ur muscles were 20 years back. The past is past. I'm talking about the present.

The worst are those whose profile are pictureless. They furnish their profiles with stats, lavish description of what they are & describe themselves with bogus adjectives, e.g. muscular, beefy, gymfit, stud, hunk, etc. So, am I supposed to imagine how big & muscular & handsome you are? Meeting up with these people often turn out to be a double-disappointment, just as how u would have delusions of how tasty & wholesome a dish in a pictureless menu would be, only to be disappointed of how different it appears like & it's so not worth the bill attached to it. Despicable!

How Do You Define Muscular?

These days, there are many mediocres who think too highly of themselves & use bogus nicks & descriptions of their physique to enhance their sex appeal in cyberspace. Beefcake, muscular, gymfit, stud, hunk... u name it! While it's true tt in the Internet, nobody knows tt u r a dog, don't u love the disappointment if the person u r meeting up turns u down because you r lesser than what you have described yourself to be? While it's true tt muscular is subjective & everybody's dictionary for it is different but I think it's being used too liberally these days.

I am very good gauging whether a guy deserves to be called muscular or not. I'm currently 170cm-73kg & I have chopstick calves, ie. there is more muscle mass on my upper body. Therefore, if some guy who is 178cm tall but weight only 68kg (but has thick calves) & describes himself as muscular, I'll dismiss his claim as bogus. He's just lean fit, full stop! Sometimes, I just love meeting up with people with such bogus claims. It feels good to dismiss them. "oh you think you are muscular ha?"

What "beefy" to me? A guy with a BMI of 27.5 with his % body fat below 10. Therefore, a 170cm tall guy like me should be weighing 80kg of muscles before I would describe myself as muscular.

Mediocres Begone!

Spots for spots & stripes for stripes. Mediocres for mediocres, elites for elites. Muscular for muscular. A mediocre suggesting sex with me is like a poor old peasant farmer proposing to a beautiful noble woman for her hand in marriage. Know your caste & know where you stand. Take a good look at yourself in the mirror before approaching me. If sex is free, why should I allow my body tt I've trained so hard in the gym to be touched by u!

If u want muscles, go hire a muscular escort. If u want muscles yourself, go hit the gym! Take steroids if u must. No wait! Start off with calisthenics! Push ups, sit ups, dips & pull ups. I hate the sight of mediocres lifting feather light weights in the gym & hogging up the machines.

More About Me

What you see is what you get. My pictures are not "suggested servings". A picture tells a thousand words. Seeing is believing. A webcame tells 10K words & meeting up the person in real, 100K.

Am a typical, honest, straight forward, expressive, meticulous, perfectionistic, narcissistic, eccentric, non-conformist Virgo with the polar extremes of a gemini.

I was a just another average joe in the past (only 170cm-55kg). But I held onto this inspirational motto, that "it's better to b admired that to b an admirer". Therefore, I'm proud of where I am today but am not gonna stop until I add on another 15kg of muscles!

Am here for sex! Be it ONS or fuck buddies. Am into fit guys - beefcakes, muscle bears. The beefier the better! If u wanna look for chatmates & friends, may i suggest MOX?

What turns me on?

ONE: beefy men. The beefier the better. Let the sky be the limit! If u r 178cm tall, you are considered beefy if you are 85kg with no more than 10% body fat. That's beefy. That's muscular. If you are only 68kg, you are leantoned / gymfit. You do not qualify to be called beefy. Save yourself some face instead of using a bogus adjective to boost your market value on the net.

TWO: physically matured (as in not looking like a kid) but young-looking (not old enough to be my father). The usual age range is between 25-35yo. However, some people age slower than the rest. So while your age may fall out of my desired age range, you may still fit the bill if your face, skin & body is well maintained.

No kids please. Dear children, if u wanna play, go look for the paedophilic & ephebophilic uncles, (esp those bald, filthy-rich, lonely bankers). They have lots of money tt u leech from, which u can use to hire muscular escorts to fulfil ur myofetishes.

While I can gauge how big & muscular you are judging from your stats, the late Benjamin Netanyahu once mentioned that "there are 3 types of lies: lies, bigger lies, & statistics!"

THREE: a cute or handsome or dashing face.

Now I'll talk abt what turns me OFF:

ONE: I hate people describing how big & handsome & muscular they are but their profiles that lack any pictures of their bodies. "big", "handsome", "muscular", "hunk", "stud" & etc are very subjective & relative terms. These are non-quantifiable (i.e. subjective) & everybody has a different dictionary for those terminologies. I hate being left to imagine how muscular & handsome you are as much as I hate reading & imagining the dishes in a pictureless menu. No "suggested imaginations" please.

TWO: I hate fake pics as much as I hate outdated pics. There is no point tantalizing pple with deceptions. You will be the one who is put to shame once the truth is revealled. The door will be slammed right in front of your face! I dun care how long ago the pic was taken so long as ur actual looks & muscle tone are as good as u in the pic. As much as straight men detest sagged breasts & cellulite, I destest sagged muscles!

Am open to chat with almost anybody but if you wanna take a good look at yourself in the mirror before you approach me for sex. If your profile lacks a body or face pic, & your face & body is just an average joe, expect a torrent of derogatory remarks regarding your body & your face if you ever dare suggest me to have sex with your mediocre body & fugly face! You have been warned!

THREE: rude, self-absorbed, snobbish muscle god who expects to have his cock served & his muscles worshipped.

Sex Addict In Need of Help!

I'm a sex addict. My life revolves around sex. All work & other activitites revolves around sex. Even I gym with the aim of improving my sex appeal to attract the attention of the most muscular men in my gym (to no avail of course). I'm certainly in need of help to overcome my addiction. I'm very bothered if I cant get my rations & I'm angered when I'm seduced, turned on, but abandoned & left high & dry. This is very disturbing. It's affecting my work performance, my gym performance. I certainly need help!

Sand & Diamonds

Why are diamonds so precious, expensive, dear, deeply desired, coveted, & sought for? Why are the grains of sand on the beach so overlooked & taken for granted? Simple. Sand is composed of quartz, a common mineral on Earth & therefore taken lightly of, whereas diamonds are extremely rare, found only in kimberlite & lamproite rocks.

Therefore in sex buddy relationship, one should not display too much interest in his sex partners, lest he be taken for granted like the sands on the beach. I've learnt this the hard & painful way. Yes, sex with some of them was extremely good. I wanted more. I wanted to satisfy them too. Give them a good time. However, I was taken for granted by them & they see me no more. Therefore, one should only display marginal interest during conversations over IM, emails, sms or the phone. There should not be any small talks other than sex. You are meeting him up solely for a sexual transaction. Once it's completed, you two should be on own on separate ways. Do not display profound interest in the person. For those that you met for the 1st time in the saunas, just leave your number behind if they fancy you for a second round. Wait for their call. Do not call them.

When you draw them into your place for sex, stimulate all their senses: sight, sound, smell, taste, & touch. Make your moment with them a memorable one, such that they will seek you again & again for more sensations. In so, you create an exclusitivity in yourself that they cannot find in other men, putting them firmly under your spell. Practise this on several men you meet & soon you shall have a near daily supply of flesh for your physical gratification.

The Hare & the Tortoise in the World of Bodybuilding

As mentioned in my previous blog, there is a rare number of those blessed with a good basic body frame to become muscle gods (e.g. 178cm-80kg barrel-chested, mesomorphic or semi-ectomorphic body with big calves & broad shoulders). While there are those who went on to realise their full potential, there are the unfortunate those who became couch & computer potatoes, binge on alcohol & calorie-dense foods - finally ending up with disgusting man boobs & huge jelly pot bellies that quiver as they walk about - reminding me of the Blob in the X-men series or Baron Harkonnen of Frank Herbert's Dune universe. These are likened to the complacent hare that lost the race from sleeping.

Some gays become gays because they suffer from an inferior complex, thinking that they are not man enough because they lack certain physical attributes of a macho man, e.g. a beefy musculature, height, thick calves & wide chest. Thus, they desire the company & (perhaps) physical union with men with qualities & attributes that they lack to make up for what they lack. While some of these continue not to improve on their physique, some are driven to improve on their physique, inspired by the motto "it is better to be admired than to be an admirer". They toil in the gym, eat more, take protein supplements, & mass gainers. Some even risk their health by injecting or consuming steroids. The end result, some of these ended up more attractive than the big, tall straight guys that they had crushes on during their high school days. Thus, some of these tortoises beat the hares in the race to become muscular & sexually attractive.

I was a thin, frail boy with the a 170cm tall body & 55kg body during my high school days. I was a whimp. I cant play football nor basketball nor tennis. I can only play basic badminton & swim breaststroke & freestyle (but my swimming instructor commented that I swam very stiffly, like a wooden plank!). Yup. Had crushes on many guys who are taller, bigger, & more muscular than me. However, since my uni days, I've taken up weight lifting as a hobby. I've joined the uni's dragon boat team for a while. That was where I learnt the basics for fitness & weight lifting. & all I need to do to improve then was to gradually increase the weights that I lift.

Today, I weight 73kg, which I felt it's a good personal achievement. When I went to a local sauna recently, I could not find someone that meets my match or more muscular than me. Yes, most of the beefier ones are in hiding or bound in monogamy. I'm not contended with where I am now. My aim is to achieve a 85kg beefy body. & when I meet up with my former school mates in one of their weddings recently, they were astonished with how much I have grown after my O levels. My thin calves are the evidence of how thin i was during my secondary school days. If I can make it this far, I believe many others have done so (even exceeded me) & many of you can be as muscular as me or even better.

To carve a Big Statue, You'll Need a Big Rock

To be an aesthetically appealing heavy weight bodybuilder, your basic, foundational, naive body frame should be at least 178cm tall, barrel-chested, mesomorphic body weighing 80kg, with long clavicles for broad shoulders, & big calves. Ideally it should be 185cm tall & 85kg.

Why? If you are too short, say only 168cm tall, you'll look short & staut like a little teapot. If you are 180cm-65kg, you are pretty endomorphic & it may be a challenge to add on lean weight. If you are an ectomorph, it'll b a challenge to add on lean mass without increasing your fat mass. Ectomorphs have to invest a lot of more effort in their cutting phase, making it slower for them to achieve a body of Herculean proportions. I think these ectomorphs should consider adopting a muscular stocky body like those muscle bears.

To attain a sexually appealing V frame for the upper body, one must be endowned with longer clavicles (collar bones) for a broader shoulder. While it's a great challenge to enlarge one's delts, chest & shoulders if you have a wide shoulder frame but to those who succeeded, they are such a turn on! The barrel-chested rugby players may not be endowned with an obvious V frame, but they have very big, wide & strong chests & shoulders, another major turn on!

The calve muscles may be the hardest muscle on the body to train up. Therefore, those who are endowned with large calves have a far greater edge over those who do not in attaining an X framed body, which is far more sexually appealing than those with a clear V frame but chopstick legs, which may be a put off for some (but not for me, because I prize the upper body musculature above the rest).

So to carve a big statue, the basic body should be big in the 1st place. While lacking tt kind of frame is not a disability but presents a major obstacle against achieving a Herculean body. I certainly envy guys who are endowned the basics, & my admiration goes to those who made full use of this advantage in them to realise their full potential to become muscle gods. Those who are complacent with their gifts & made no effort to improve on them but slacked & accumulate fat seriously irks me. If I have a foundation like theirs in the 1st place, I may have attained a bodybuilder's physique by now.

The Reason Why am I NOT into Caucasians

The logic for my decision?

Premise ONE: Caucasians have the genetic predisposition for a bigger, more muscular physique.

Most Caucasians are descended from barbarians (e.g. Vikings, Magyars, Goths, Slavs, Celts), Turks, Greeks & Romans, all of whom are physically endowned to be conquerers & terrorizers. Europe has been pretty chaotic in the recent 1500 years, with threats of barbarians (e.g. Vikings, Magyars & Huns) & the Ottoman Empire. These invaders may not only pillage the areas that they terrorise, but also systematically decimate the local male populations & rape the women there, leaving their genetic inprints in the local genetic pool. Also, male commoners were conscripted into millitary service during the Crusades & war campaigns. Only the fitter ones survive the ardous journeys to warzones, survive the conflicts there, & survive the treck home to enter into marriage & reproduce. Chaos from such turmoils exerts a strong selection pressure for physical fitness. Therefore, a significantly large proportions of native European males today would have been endowned with the genetic predisposition for greater physical heights & muscularity.

In East Asia, there is politically far more stable than Europe during the last 2000 years with the unification of the entire Han China under the Qin Dynasty. Thus, there is far less selection pressure for fitter & physically endowned males. In these Confucian societies, males are regarded to be of greater importance than females, for they are heirs to the family name. One of the greatest sins to their ancestors then was not being able to sire a son for the continuation of the family name. Thus, there are efforts to ensure that they enter into marriage & reproduce to carry on the family name, eventhough they possess undesirable characteristics, e.g. a thin, sickly physique, small penises. Thus, Chinese & Korean males who are endowned with height, strength & huge shafts are genetic rarity & should therefore be considered exotic.

Swim-fit, gym toned physique of a Japanese boy is very popular in Singapore & widely adopted by many metrosexual AJ. However, they are likened to the sand on a beach, so common, nothing impressive, unlike a rare 185cm-95kg Chinese Hercules.

Premise TWO: Good gym facilities are more abundant & accessible in developed Western countries.

Unlike countries like Malaysia, whereby good gym facilities are rare & the gym membership fees are very heavy, good gyms abound in the developed West & are far more affordable. Thus, the Caucasians there have less excuse for not lifting weights & build muscles. Too busy? The only group of people who are too busy to gym are those Singaporean bankers who may work over 10 hours a day, 5-6 days a week!

Premise THREE: Food, bodybuilding supplements, & anabolic steroids are more available at a more affordable prices in developed Western countries (with respect to their citizen's purchasing power).

Optimum Nutrition's 100% Whey Protein (5lbs) is only USD39.99 from bodybuilding.com but SGD122.00 in retail & SGD72.00 from nutritionpark.com - a Singaporean online supplement store. That's HELL a lot more cheaper in the States! Consumers in the States will have greater purchasing power over the same product in USA than a Singaporean in Singapore. In addition, some USA bodybuilders obtain their protein source solely from whey powder instead of meat or eggs because it's a cheaper alternative source of protein & it's preparation into protein shakes is far more convenient than boiling eggs & separating out the yolk from the egg white (fyi, cooked ovalbumin is more digestible vs raw ovalbumin). It's quite a chore to consume 10-15 egg whites a day, not to mention the hydrogen sulphide egg breath after that.

Furthermore, there are "legal steroids" available in developed countries like USA, i.e. they can be purchased from the local pharmacies with a prescription (Rx) to enhance musculature for aesthetic purposes. However the user will not be permitted to participate in competitions. Fair enough. There may even be companion selling of other drugs & supplements to be administered concomitantly with steroids to taken also accompany the purchase of these steroids with other drugs & herbal supplements to help minimise the undesirable side effects associated with chronic steroid use, e.g. milk thistle & schisandra (wu wei zi) as hepato-protectants & to promote liver regeneration.

Premise FOUR: Work environment & standard of living in developed Western countries are better & more relaxed that in developing countries, e.g. Japan, Hong Kong, Taiwan, South Korea, Singapore, & Malaysia.

Stress increases cortisol secretion, a catabolic stress hormone that promotes centripetal fat distribution (fatty torso & thin arms) & muscle catabolism. Thus, when you are under stress, it's harder to maintain your musculature, let alone promote muscle growth. The work environment in countries dominated by East Asians (e.g. Japan, Hong Kong, Taiwan) is far more stressful than Caucasian dominated countries, which explains their higher suicides & insanity rates. It's all thanks to the stupid Confucian idea that success stems from hard work. Partially true, but success stems from working smartly & efficiently. Efficiency is intelligent laziness. Therefore, it will be easier for a Caucasian in the USA to grow muscles than a Chinese in Hong Kong.

THUS, given the genetic predisposition present, the abundance of good food, cheap & good supplements, good & relatively cheap gym facilities available, less stressful work environment, most Caucasians should be a Herculean Adonis! However, we see that most of them failed miserably to take advantage of their genetic predisposition & living environment to attain a body of Herculean proportions. Instead, they are more interested in eating fat-laden foods & binging on alcohol to cultivate love handles (I call them lard handles), man boobs & gross pot bellies as if they are 9 months pregnant! Imagine all the body hair, long beards, moustaches, obese bodies with sagging boobs & a big pot belly (not to mention their sourish smell)... it's a TOTAL PUT OFF!

If I were to be raised up in USA / Canada / Australia, given the abundant good food, cheap & good protein supplements, & good gym facilities available, I would have been a walking 185cm-95kg muscle god by my early 20's.

Furthermore, most of the gorgeous Caucasian hunks that you watch on TV are the TOP most beautiful Caucasians in the Caucasian populations. If they are not the best, how can they appear on TV? Even those who appear on reality shows have already screen for acceptable standards of beauty. The rest of the population are as mediocre & bland as any average asian tom dick & harry that u can encounter along the streets of Singapore or KL.

Why are there so many hairy & obese Caucasian uncles in Singapore? ONE: they are single, TWO: they have established & successful careers, i.e. got too much money & dunno how to make good use of it. Why are Singaporean Chinese boys so crazy over these Neanderthals? ONE: they have a fetish over big & thick (but limp) cocks. TWO: they want to use these uncles as a launchpad to gain residence in a developed western country, just like those sarong party girls. Disgusting gigolo sluts!

Short Dick Man

Nomatter how big your muscles are, if your cock size is of 4 inches & below, it's gonna be a MAJOR moment of disappointment once your partner caught sight of it! Expect the expression given out by Frances O'Connor in Bedazzled when Brendan Fraser unravelled his manhood.

There's a natural selection pressure against men with small cocks (4 inches & below). Given a choice, ANY woman would have opted for men with cocks bigger than 5 inches (although some bimbos out there would perfer cocks the size of a policeman's baton). My beautitian once said: "if a woman finds out that her BF / husband has a pathetically small penis, once she finds another man with a significantly larger tool, she will RUN FOR HER LIFE."

Look, if u expect your female partner to have a tight vagina for u to screw, you should check your tools, sometimes the screwdriver cant fit in & screw because it's a little too small. Dont u think it's a little unfair for the poor girl if you have a bonsai penis that's hidden in a dense bush of coarse, stinky pubic hair??

Men with cocks 4 inches & below should NOT reproduce. They should not even think of it! Your tool is not big enough to pass the sperm into your female partner, especially if your fat tummy is to come between the 2 of u. A small dick could be a telltale sign from Mother Nature that you possess inferior genes & she does not want these to be passed on the next generation.

To those who believe in re-incarnation, a small penis could be retribution in your past life. To paraphrase Adrian Tan: "you must have done something very bad in your previous life to suffer such a terrible fate!". Thus, all men with cock 4 inches & below are destined to be gay bottoms. Dont make a fool of yourself by telling a gay bottom with a 7 inch thick cock tt u wanna play top. Expect slip-outs to be a common complain from your recepient partner. So learn to accept your fate as a gay bottom, be good & spread out your legs!

In my curiousity on where I stand in the spectrum of penis sizes, I googled, & found that my willy is "not bad after all". People have complimented its size. Those with a more virgin butt mentioned that it's "a little challenging" for them, whereas those with a more seasoned butt mentioned that it's "just nice". & I came across pics of micropenises. So poor thing! In obese men with micropenises, the penis withdraws into the layers of fat at his lower abdomen, leaving a ring of skin outside. What an eyesore!

There was a guy with a pencil thin, 4 inch cock whom I met at a sauna & I had to pretend to enjoy him thrusting his shrimpy cock into me. After bitching to his friend months later about his mediocre, child-like tool, he relayed the message to him, who approached me & hinted on leaky asses. Oh please! Gimme a break! ANY ass will leak when fucked by your itsy bitsy cock!

I think I've found a relationship between masturbating early, short stature, & big dicks. During the period of growth spurt during early puberty, gentle stretches of the penis during jerkoffs promote, larger, more vascular cocks (yummy). Thus people who started masturbating early usually have larger tools. However, orgasm stimulates the release of somatostatin, which inhibits growth hormone release from the pituitary gland. Thus, people who jerked off early often have huge penises but smaller stature. An alternative explanation is found in TCM, men lose Qi when they ejaculate so if they jerk off a lot, they are going to lose a lot of that Qi, which supports growth & muscle development.

Using that flow of logic, we can establish a relationship between masturbating late / infrequently, huge physique & small dicks. Past early puberty, the penile tissue is less responsive to stretches & jelqing. & people who JO rarely save up a lot of Qi. So these people may have succeded in conserving their precious Qi but ended up with small penises haha.

Beef Shortage in Singapore

Young Singaporean AJs are more interested in adopting the boyish (more like childish & immatured), lean-toned (read: SKINNY) & swim-built physique, unlike their HK & Taiwanese counterparts. Easier maintainance they say (yeah right - excuses). Besides, most of the good beefcakes have gone into hiding from the AJ scene. These have resulted in a severe beef shortage in Singapore.

I've always perceived being hunki dori & ripped with huge muscles as the epitome of manhood (provided they have a significantly big tool between their legs). Getting a slimfit, gymtoned, swimbuilt body is so POC (piece of cake) & cannot be compared to the toils a man endures & persevere in the gym to grow & maintain muscles of Herculean proportions.

& oh how I hate reading about twinks criticizing pics of beefcakes posted by members in Trevvy.com! the grapes are sour! Those fugly stick insects just love to criticize those muscles gods, saying that their out of proportions, legs too small, face ugly, small cocks, muscles too humongous & frightening. Stupid ass holes. If you noticed that the thumbnail is the pic of a beefcake, dun bother to view it & leave behind your stupid, irritating comments. If u dun like what you see, step aside & turn your eyes away, u Fugly! Gimme a break, these men deserve credit for their tremendous input in the gym. & what's so frightening about their muscles? Are u afraid that their weight of muscles may crush your osteoporotic frame when they top u on the bed?

Sigh, o beefcakes, where art thou? Cant find u in gay.com (deleted my account recently as it's a waste of time chatting with some of the men there) nor in TC. & u r so unapproachable in the gym. sigh...